How to teach a child to be generous.

Hello I’m Clara and I’m going to give some appropriate tips for parents about how to teach their children to be generous, hardworking and responsable citizens. In some cases rising a child could be difficult for parents and also kids. 


First of all, we need to know that kids try to imite everything they see. They repeat words, gestures and unconsciously copy facial expression form their parents. They will be strongly influenced by them. Almost all parents want their children to be well-mannered but they have to instill good manners in them. 


Added to this, although we don not believe it, the childhood of your kid will affect his mood at his teenage years. Modern teenagers use social networks and it can also affect them. At that age, they make friends and they tell each other the best secrets they have. It could be a problem, because if someone breaks a promise or tells a secret could cause terrible fights among teenagers. 


However, parents try that their kids get the best marks they can. I strongly believe parents do not have to overwhelm them. They only have to encourage them to get these high marks and tell them they will be whatever they want with effort. 


In a nutshell, parents want the best for their children so they have to teach them good manners. Youngsters will grow up with their friends and their family, and for this reason, both will have to give these kids the best feelings they have to make them feel comfortable with themselves.

Deep quotes.

“Human relationships are strange.

I mean, 

you are with one person a while, 

eating and sleeping and living with them, 

loving them, 

talking to them, going places together, 

and then

it stops.”

—Charles Bukowski.

Deep quotes.

“We don’t fall in love with people, we fall in love with ideas.

Ideas of what we want people to be like.

How we want them to treat us. love us.

Just greedy ideas that we want for ourselves.”

Deep quotes.

“You said that you feel nothing;
then why does that nothing
break your heart?”

Deep quotes.

“Everyone says love hurts, but that is not true. Loneliness hurts, rejection hurts. Losing someone hurts. Envy hurts. Everyone gets these things confused with love, but in reality love is the only thing in this world that covers up all the pain and makes someone feel wonderful again. Love is the only thing in this world that does not hurt.”— Liam Neeson.

Funnel / descriptive lead.

Satisfaction. That is what you really feel when you can touch the cold but new wind on a summer morning. The sun falls on your body and in that moment is when you feel a collision between cold and hot… between day and night. Close your eyes, now you are blind. Birds are singing, and the relaxing sound of the waves will tear you apart. This is what you can see, what you can feel in a summer sunrise on the beach.

Deep quotes.

“Vincent Van Gogh used to eat yellow paint because he thought it would get the happiness inside him. Many people thought he was mad and stupid for doing so because the paint was toxic, never mind that it was obvious that eating paint couldn’t possibly have any direct correlation to one’s happiness, but I never saw that. If you were so unhappy that even the maddest ideas could possibly work, like painting the walls of your internal organs yellow, then you are going to do it. It’s really no different than falling in love or taking drugs. There is a greater risk of getting your heart broken or overdosing, but people still do it everyday because there was always that chance it could make things better. Everyone has their yellow paint.”— Alexandra Timmer.

Deep quotes.

“What if seeing each other again changed everything?”

Deep quotes.

"Addiction is tricky.

For example;  a man who 

quit smoking for 11 years

spent 15 seconds in an

elevator with a man

smoking a cigarette. He

gave in. What I’m trying 

to say is I think I love

you again."

Outline.

—Study at university. 

I. Study at university is not as easy as we think.

II. You have more obligations than in high school.

III. You have to do your things for your own.

IV. You have to study hard.

V. Because of your obligations, the things you have to do and everything you have to study… we can see that university is not as easy as we think at first.

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When you say “study at university” you may think that it’s easy or maybe that it’s just one course more in your academic history… but it isn’t. University is not easy, although you study what you really love. 

If you compare it to your years in high school, you will find out that you have not the same pressure. You have a lot of more obligations, a lot of work to do in groups and even oral expositions. 

On the other hand, you have to do the things for your own. You’re competing with more people that also want to get that career. If you want a good exposition or do an excellent exam you have to work for it.

However, you have to try your best with whatever you want to do. No matter how difficult it is. That is why you have to study as hard as you can.

Because of your obligations, the things you have to do and everything you have to study… we can see that university is not as easy as we think at first.

Thesis statement + introductory paragraph.

GUN OWNERSHIP

Today’s ‘gun ownership’ is a much debated and problematic issue between people. Is must to say that the fact of having a gun in house could be dangerous, specially if you have children living there. This problem is much debated in EEUU because of all the cases that have happened during last years in high schools. Children couldn’t be able to have a weapon in their hands. 

Deep quotes.

1:16 am

i’m not going to tell you i miss you

but i do.

Deep quotes.

"I want to hold hands

and waste Friday nights 

with you."

Deep quotes.

“Two things define you. 

Your patience when you have nothing, 

and your attitude when you have everything.”

Deep quotes.

“Ignoring your passion is slow suicide. Never ignore what your heart pumps for. Mold your career around your lifestyle not your lifestyle around your career.”

Deep quotes.

“I never cared about what I lost, 

until I lost what I cared about.”

— William Chapman.

...

And now…

we understand why Peter Pan didn’t want to grow up.

Comparison.

Nowadays everyone wants a job, but what if you get it while you’re at university?

At first, having a job means you’re earning money. That money will be so helpful in some cases. It could help you to pay the rental of the flat you’re living in. You could go shopping and get that skirt with you fell in love at first sight. In a nutshell, you will have self-dependence. Otherwise, having a job will also pressures you to do your obligations for university as soon and fast as you can. 

On the other hand, having a job gives you more stress that you really need. You won’t have the same free time you had while you were not working. You will be more tired, and when you come to your house you will only want to go to bed. You will have to give a 100% and work twice harder you were working before. You will have less time to study and also to going out with your friends. 


Learn on earn? Does it really worth it? 

Deep quotes.

“He looked at her the way all girls wanted to be looked at.”— Great Gatsby.

Deep quotes.

“Tell me the story about how the sun loved the moon so much he died every night to let her breathe.”

Poem.

"Shall I compare you to the rain...?

Everytime you look at me I'm on the clouds,

but when you turn around I fell to the ground.

I feel like a drop in the ocean,

being just a little part of you.

Just a little bit of your heart is all I'm asking for.

I can't find the words to express myself,

but if I don't have you with me...

at least I have you in my mind.

I can't stop thinking about you."

Deep quotes.

“Don’t think about what can happen in a month. Don’t think about what can happen in a year. Just focus on the 24 hours in front of you and do what you can to get closer to where you want to be.”- Eric Thomas.

Internet for refugees.

Internet could do amazing things, such as let the people know what the refugees need. That needed items are basic things that people already have. Materials like water, food and a house.

I also think we should work more in this concepts. We should informe the people by TV, radio and Internet. I strongly believe Internet connects people, Internet connects every part of the world.

Deep quotes.

“Remember that you were art long before he came to admire you, and you’ll continue to be art ever when he’s gone.”

-a masterpiece is still a masterpiece when the lights are off and the room is empty.

Guernica.

At first, I think I couldn't describe what the Guernica makes me feel. But then, after looking at the picture for a while I still don't knowing what to say. I don't have any information about the painting, I don't know when Picasso painted it and don't even know what does the picture mean. 

The only thing I could say is that I can see faces, animals, toes, hands… also lights. But that mixture get me confused. I mean, the faces of the people and also the animals seems scared, looks worried about something. There’s a leg, then a hand and also a head without them body. The painting has no color,  It has muted colors…just black and white. I think this represent a dark situation. 

I repeat myself… Guernica get me confused!

Deep quotes.

“Have the courage to be exactly who you are without apology.”-Iyanla Vanzant.

Third freewriting.

Topic: Thursday’s party.

We all Murcian students know that Thursday’s night is not just as the rest of the other nights of the week (Monday, Tuesday or Wednesday). Thursday’s night is the night where all the university students meet together at ‘Atalayas’ and drink for some hours. This happens before going to the discos around. 

That night is when the people get divided into three kinds of groups:

·Group number one or ‘responsible students’: people that go out, but they will come to their house at 3 because of they have classes at 9 o’clock. 

·Group number two or ‘not very responsible students’: people that obviously go out, but they don’t know at what time will they arrive to their house. At 5 a.m.? Maybe 6 a.m. Will them go to classes next morning? Nobody knows…

·Group number three or ‘Clara’s case’: people that go out and they don’t have to arrive as soon as possible to their house. Don’t worry about the hour, it doesn’t matter! They only have classes at evenings. 

Second freewrithing.

Topic: your room.

The word ‘room’ could be defined as “a portion of space within a building or other structure, separated by walls or partitions from other parts”, but I disagree. The room of each person is not just the place where they sleep. I strongly think you room is more than that. In fact, since I moved on to Murcia I have decorated my room as I wanted. 

So, that is why I believe that your room shows how you are, and the way It is decorated also shows your personality. 

Your rom is more than a bed and a desk! Your room is the reason why all you things are working together!

First freewriting.

Topic: Friends.

I strongly think you don't know your friends until you live with them.
Living in a flat with friends sometimes could be difficult... I mean, everybody has different ways to live, organize... and if you put it all together maybe it could cause an explosion.
Nevertheless, if you live with your friends you will spend a lot of time together and you will also have incredible moments and experiences that you will never forget.